Clark, it's understandable that you're frustrated. Unfortunately this sort of thing happens all of the time. Some buyers are flakes, and as a result some sellers make assumptions. Actually I was in a similar situation where a breeder confused me with someone else. It is a problem that as breeders/sellers we need to correct. Some breeders/sellers already 'get it', but customer service is at least 50% of any business. Those who don't 'get it' are driving their customers away. It not only affects their business, but all of us as a whole.
I hope that I can assure you that there are some good guys in this business. I have found the feedback section on this site, and the BOI on faunaclassifieds.com to be a great help to find the better people to buy from.