Nope if you don't see the little red blood vessels at The base. Probably a girl. But I can't say for sure bc I dont know if you are actually fully popping them. Even if you don't fully get the hemipenes out you still should be able to see the Pink blood vessels. If you don't see the pink it's a female. Females will still have the spurs I believe they are called but they won't have The pink at The base.