I agree lgray! Anyone who want to be with me has to accept me for me and all if me. I see my reptiles as my hopes and dreams in life. They keep me on the straight and narrow. Like said before if he doesn't accept you and all of you for you. Stop wasting time. Life is too short to be miserable. Asking you to get rid of a child basically is totally rediculous. And personally I'd say I'll get rid of you before I get rid of them. I'm sure in his eyes he doesn't see it that way but also have you ever asked him to get rid of the computer, or ps, or xbox or whatever it is??