I gave her a little bit of a break and waited for her to go back into her hide, and she struck from the hide to eat.
exactly,

i just went thru this with my hatchiling last month, did not want to eat first 3 weeks, i got him to eat the first 2 times with ASF's fuzzie, but later figuered out that what i was doing wrong was offering him to big of a meal, because the first 2 offerings where small white mice from petland, which were still too big for him, because afterwards i offered white fuzzies and he takes them all day. but will not go for ones that are already, u know developed. You got to get them while they are in the stage that they have some fuzz and there eyes arent developed.... atleast thats what worked for me. And yeh the first 2 times he fed was a strike from his hide.