thanks guys! they are in different enclosures and she is only 40 grams to begin with thats why we were so concerned with the losing 5 grams. I do have the under the tank heaters I was just really concerned with the heat being too much but thanks for all of the advice I'll go ahead and set up the UTH today! I have noticed the humidity goes up when the light is off.

Oh and it seems the one who has eaten wont eat if the prey is a fuzzy only a pinkie. I was told by someone else it might be she just isnt confident in herself yet.

So what I'm gathering from all of this is trying tweaking the cage so she is more comfortable then try feeding them again.?

Is there anyway I can get a lid/cover for the cage that isn't completely open?

Thanks again and any other info or sites you could link me to with as much info as possible would be great. My burm was so easy to care for compared to these guys lol