i have a male pastel thats about 1200g and a normal female thats 1500g.now my question is would the female try rubing her spurs on the male?she keeps try to put her tail under his tail.he seems like he lazy and not interested but she wants it bad.lol.but i thought males are the ones that do the spur rubing and all that so now im thinking the female is realy a male and thinks my male pastel is a female.im lost.lolplz help