Time will fix it...I wanted to get back into snakes for years and my wife kept on with the no snakes in the house routine. Guess who got me my first one after years of not having any? She came home one day and said "Come on lets go and get your early Xmas present." I say "Can't it wait til Xmas?" Anyway she adopted a nice male normal for me that someone did not want any longer. Went to her first show awhile back and guess what we came home with. Needless to say she is right in the big middle of it all now...