Ouch! If the size of your love is measured by the size of the ring then I would choose a new potential wife! I've never let money/materialistic things ever be a factor in any relationship I've had. I've had both women that made considerably more money than myself and women that made considerably less than myself. It really didn't matter to either of us one way or the other because we never let it. I just see that as a measure of what to look forward to the rest of your life. Bigger, better, more expensive? Shop for a new husband would be my response to her.... but that's just me! I realize the new username means anonymity so I just shot it like I see it. I don't sugar coat things too well! Hope it works out whatever you decide to do and I respect your opinion either way. Just my $.02
Regards,
B