I just got home from work, and they are definitely locked now!

Thanks for the advice, and I agree -- the spider will be getting the rest of the action from here on out! I just wanted to see what my normal male would do since the spider got shot down previously. Being this is my first breeding attempt, and I got a bit of a late start; I just wanted to make sure I had the conditions right and all of this wasn't in vain.

Once my normal unlocks from her; how long should I wait until I put the spider in?

Thanks!