I know what you mean, my family and my fiancee family is the same way, flipping out that my BP will kill everyone. Now granite, I do Have a brb with could get pretty big (8+ft) but like you j Have racks, and locks know everything... plus a spare room where no one, bit me, go in. It is very frustrating, but at the end of the day, its your life and your fiancea's. And your family needs to understand that.. mine finally did and it a lot better. My mom is a person who believes EVERYTHING she sees/hears on the tv or news, so you can only imagine. But I finally got to her the real facts and she likes snakes now...

Good luck, and sorry if none of this makes since, bit my phone isn't the best to type long responses lol.

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