Dont let them get to you, some have forgotten where and how they started.
At the end of the day you have to feel YOU are doing the best you can regardless of what anyone posts on a message board. None of us are in your house so its not like we are REALLY there to help and see the situation.
Take everything in stride as you are. These are wild animals that do not always live in the perfect conditions in the wild but they manage to survive![]()