It takes time and patience. Some will grow to love the attention, others will abhor it forever. Only time will tell. They usually stay in their hides as that is where they are comfortable. They stray out of them usually when hungry or thirsty. But will also wander around when feeling stressed. They are most comfortable when in their hides. You also need to give t more then 2 days to acclimate. Try a week and then take it out for a short period at a time. Oh yeah, welcome to the addiction.