She is small. Sadly, the girl I got her from was feeding her a pinkie every other week. I am amazed she actually survived from all I have read on here.
As for her tank, I think it is cluttered fairly well ( 2 hides, water dish, a climb branch). One thing I didn't try is putting black paper on the back and sides, which I am going to try tonight.
As for handling her, it REALLY seems like that is what she wants. When I get her out she will wrap herself around my wrist or climb all over me. When I go to put her down anywhere, whether it be her tank or the bed or anything else, she tends to hang on and not want to let go. And as soon as I do put her down, she tends to come right back to me after just a few minutes if I am on the bed, or will go to whatever side I am at and go to the edge of the bed and "lean over" towards me.
I'm new to BP's but from all I have read on her about how they act when stressed this really doesn't seem the same. And again, maybe I am just over reacting. I will hold off handling her to every other day and see what that does though. I don't handle her for 2 days after feeding already, so I will hold off until Sat and see what effect that has.