should i just give up on snakes?

[pixie6710]

lately i have been getting so much crap from everyone about how it's stupid for me to treat my snakes the way i do and that im just waisting my time even haveing snakes. my snakes r my like and i put them before myself no matter what. it feels like im all alone now i dont know if i should keep my snakes or just give up

[M_MULLINS]

Keep em who cares what other people think. As long as your snakes are taken care of that's all that should matter

[Jay_Bunny]

Don't give up on them if its something you really love. Don't ever let someone convince you to give up your passion. Just remember that these people who try to convince you otherwise just don't understand. They don't like snakes like you do, so to see someone be so passionate about them, it confuses them.

Keep your snakes and have fun with your hobby!

[FatBoy]

Your story contridicts itself...If you feel that strongly about your animals you would never consider giving them up, unless you are not capable of taking care of them.

[sookieball]

why keep them? if its all about what other people like, and how other people see you.....


$%@#^@%^$%^@%^@$%&#%^&#%^ everyone!
this is a VERY NOT SEEN EVERYDAY HOBBY THAT PEOPLE THINK IS JUST STRANGE!

honestly! dont ever try to make others happy! they are happy in their misery.
and want to bring you down too.

so you have an obsession with balls? alot of americans do!
dont give up! how much more happiness have snakes brought you than the people talking all this crud about it. if they were real friends and family, they would be happy for you and cheer you on.

never saying a negative thing about it.

[j_h_smith]

lately i have been getting so much crap from everyone about how it's stupid for me to treat my snakes the way i do and that im just waisting my time even haveing snakes. my snakes r my like and i put them before myself no matter what. it feels like im all alone now i dont know if i should keep my snakes or just give up

I think you have to find a happy balance. I don't know if I'd put my pets before myself. Being a responsible pet owner is important and no one should tell you it's okay to be a bad owner, BUT there has to be a time for you and a place for your pets in your life. It is easy to become compulsive with pets, but you must realize they are just pets. A good relationship with family and friends is more important. If you find that having your pets is becoming too much, find someone that can help. Maybe you are spending too much time, energy and money on your snakes. That doesn't mean you have to have it all or nothing. Compromise, if you have 10 snakes and it becomes too much, sell a few. If you still find yourself overwhelmed, sell a few more. Continue to do this until you have found a balance.

Lets face it, snake keeping can get expensive. It's not a measure on your character if you can't afford as many snakes as you have. I've done that. Years ago, I owned 73 snakes. Way too many for me at that time. So I sold some.

Talk to your family and friends. Let them know that your snakes are an important part of your life and you understand the fact that they don't like them or think you're crazy for owning them. But as long as you do this responsibly, it's your decision. Ask them to please respect that.

But, if they are seeing something that you're not seeing (as an example; you're becoming compulsive with your snake collection) they have to be able to tell you what they really feel. That's just a good, healthy relationship. Sort of a check and balance. What are they saying to you? Are they really concerned, or just giving you a hard time? Are they just picking on you for fun, or do they see something that seriously worry them?

Just realize that you don't have to go to extremes. You can own as many snakes as you can comfortable afford or have time for. But if something changes in your life, you don't have to sell every snake you own.

Good Luck!
Jim Smith

[sookieball]

Your story contridicts itself...If you feel that strongly about your animals you would never consider giving them up, unless you are not capable of taking care of them.

thats probably the way those people see it.

i dont make much money and can barley afford to feed myself.
come feed day i make sure they eat before i do.

some people see that and think "why try"

but we love our animals and our addictions more.


i just realized that made me sound like a druggy... lol

[BGdyl]

you should always put yourself first before anything, but besides that if your snakes are your true passion than follow it most people don't even have passions or hobbies but only you know if keeping snakes is right for you

[dembonez]

whocares about anyone else! whatever floats your boat!



people are nuts with dogs cats every animal out there you aren't alone....

type in Gerbil and you will find FORUMS FORUMS AND MORE FORUMS!!! of how people dress their Gerbils up and how they love them so much! its no different except snakes are made to be "Bad Guys" in movies and TV so people tend to think its more strange but hey...i always loved the bad guys! ;D







to end my Rant all i have to say it...if you Friends are Acutely that! FRIENDS they wouldn't care!!! what you like they are suppose to support you through ANYTHING!!...and if they don't well...they aren't very good friends are they?



Kay Done Rant! :$

[pixie6710]

thats probably the way those people see it.

i dont make much money and can barley afford to feed myself.
come feed day i make sure they eat before i do.

some people see that and think "why try"

but we love our animals and our addictions more.


i just realized that made me sound like a druggy... lol

lol im not that bad. i make sure i have all the stuff i need done for myself done when it needs to be but call me crazy if i am low on money and my snakes need food, they come first, i can fend for myself. they need help.