Here we go, moving, agian.

[Inknsteel]

I've read your posts about your situation recently. I have to say, I think that moving with your aunt and uncle is a MUCH better idea than following your mom around. I don't know you or your situation personally, but it sounds like you will have a lot more respect and a better home life in general once you're away from your mom and her bf. Maybe in time she'll figure it out for herself, but at 21, you need to be free from that drama... So congratz on making the tough decision, but don't forget that this is what's best for you right now and stick with this choice...

[shescountry89]

I've read your posts about your situation recently. I have to say, I think that moving with your aunt and uncle is a MUCH better idea than following your mom around. I don't know you or your situation personally, but it sounds like you will have a lot more respect and a better home life in general once you're away from your mom and her bf. Maybe in time she'll figure it out for herself, but at 21, you need to be free from that drama... So congratz on making the tough decision, but don't forget that this is what's best for you right now and stick with this choice...

It's one of the biggest choices I am going to have to make, I've followed her around for 21 years with all her different boyfriends that turn out all the same. She has started drinking lately, with him so that's another warning sign to me. I fit in really well in my Uncles house-hold, and I know all this major stress will start to fall away.

One of the most painful things though, is my mom has never said I love you to me. When she gives me a hug, it's ackward and she acts like she doesn't even want to be touching me

[Swingline0.0.1]

My mother never wanted be have me in the first place, I was 27 before I forgave the awful things she said, did, and let my stepfather do to my sister and I. It is the reason I decided to become a Psychologist. It takes some hard times to get through it sometimes, but I know you can do it girl! The main thing is to stay drama free, focused, and strive to do better than she did.