The guy said it'll be another month before ill be able to tell if she is or not. That'll give me enough time to either buy an incubator or build one. I do have a question though. He said his spider was with her for 3 weeks straight. I read a little while back that your supposed to put the male in with the female for 3 days then take him out for three days, and to keep doing that for a few weeks. Is it just a matter of preferance or was he doing it wrong?