I purchased a Male Spider from DZB Reptiles http://www.dzbreptiles.com/ back in November '09.
They're located in Florida, which is where I noticed you live. I know they were at Daytona this year.
He's awesome. Best personality I have ever seen in a snake and i'm almost positive he likes to be handled. Never missed a meal. Jeff and Debbie from DZB were awesome too. I still keep in touch with them.
Haven't had any other experiences with anyone else (Except Petco. Ugh.), but I am sure there are alot of good breeders out there.