I would feed her more and pick her up anyway. Break the "hunt" when she coils up at you. Take hemostats or your hook and tap her on the head when she coils (not hard just touch). Put her in a snake bag and let her sit with you while your surf the net or watch tv.
Don't be afraid of her if you need to let her bite you so you know it doesn't hurt to bad. The main thing I find is hesitation will get you bit. Just find what ever technique is best for you, this guys hand over the head trick, "breaking the hunt", picking up behind the S coil like another poster mentioned. What ever it is open the cage reach in a pick her up every time with no hesitation. That way she doesn't have a chance to get all worked up.
If you cant handle it just send to me. Maybe the saying "changes in latitude changes in attitude" will work for balls too
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