My super cinnamon male is like that, but he is getting a little better. What I have been doing is handling 10-15 minutes a day, I sit by his cage and read occasionally for him to get used to me being around. Also, I feed him every five days rather than every seven like I do with everyone else, he has a bigger appetite than any of my other snakes hatchling or adult. Other than that, I don't know what to tell you, other than good luck. Hope it works out for you!