I cannot take the male to her as she has no incubator and I need my pastel for another female (pinstripe). I know my pastel is not worth much money-wise, but she isn't interested in pastels so she doesn't want to buy one. She only wants a bee so she can at some point produce axanthic killer bees (her favorite morph).

I just talked to her today. She's going to weigh her spider as she has not been weighed in a month or two. She should be getting up there. My pinstripe was around the same weight the last time she weighed her spider and my pin is around 1170 empty.