I would actually say the opposite. I think she should definitely get the first pick. Her snake is worth way more money. You are doing the breeding and caring for them, but her snake is worth probably 5 times what yours is (no offense). If I were in your situation I would probably want the second and 4th pick with her getting picks 1,3, and anything else. Personally I would not feel right taking more than two snakes from the clutch due to her snake being the more one that is worth so much more. JMO.
Also, it might be a better idea for you to take your male to her snake. Females that have been moved will often times not produce a clutch that year. Not always, but many times they take time to adjust. If you have to be the one with the female I would move her as soon as possible to try to give her more to to settle in to the new surroundings. I moved a few of my most reliable females to a new rack a few months before breeding season this year and only 1 out of the 4 laid for me. I moved them from a 32qt rack to a cb 70 rack about 3 feet away. These were all girls that I could always count on getting a good clutch out of.