i have some disturbing news

[Ham]

lol, well I can only respond to the facts as they have been told, if it turns out this isnt what actually happened than of course I would respond differently, but as it stands if thats the way it happened than I stand by my earlier response...

And yes I am paranoid, and see conspiracy every where I look, but then again thats the only sane way to deal with the world we live in...

[WingedWolfPsion]

Maybe the paranoia is simply increasing, maybe they're just becoming more obvious, but it sure does feel like this site has become some psych students thesis study.

Well, "I sleep with my new ball python that I'm afraid of", and "I think wild caught snakes are better" do sound/feel like the same person. Just sayin'. lol..

[wolfy-hound]

Psych students or trolls.....

[ster36]

First of all what happened to equality in the relationship? I mean he's an adult she's an adult she should have consulted him first before getting rid of it. 2 hes an adult and very capable of making his own decisions he shouldn't have to ask permission too have it. 3 they really need to find out what happened to it, regardless who let it go if that's what happened he's responsible and liable. this chick sounds like the controlling type, my fist wife was that way thought because she was older by 15 days she controlled everything,money,hobbies,my free time.Screw that time to move on. If I was him i'd go get another one and tell her to live with it or leave. As long there are no children involved.

[anatess]

First of all what happened to equality in the relationship? I mean he's an adult she's an adult she should have consulted him first before getting rid of it. 2 hes an adult and very capable of making his own decisions he shouldn't have to ask permission too have it. 3 they really need to find out what happened to it, regardless who let it go if that's what happened he's responsible and liable. this chick sounds like the controlling type, my fist wife was that way thought because she was older by 15 days she controlled everything,money,hobbies,my free time.Screw that time to move on. If I was him i'd go get another one and tell her to live with it or leave. As long there are no children involved.

When 2 people are cohabitating, you should ask permission. If you don't want to have to ask permission, live on your own.

Live with it or leave is only an option if you own the house and she was just freeloading.

If the person you live with (roommate, girlfriend, parents, whatever) have snake phobia you can't force a snake on them. It will mean death to that snake. If that was my parents' house and you brought a snake in, the shovel will be cutting that snake's head off in 5 seconds flat - and you won't be able to yell animal cruelty at my parents. You brought the snake into hostile environment, you get the animal cruelty tag. Of course, this will be different if my parents actually said yes, you can bring the snake in and then they whack its head off.

[smd58]

this happens a lot more then you would think, i worked in a lot of pet stores over the years and you would not belive the number of snakes, lizards that come in from thing like moving, it was my girlfriends/boyfriends or my wife/husband got deployed and i dont want to take care of it. some people have no resect for what we conseder a pet
steve

[angllady2]

I hesitate to jump to conclusions here, but I will say this.

He needs to find out what happened to the snake, and IF she was fool enough to turn it loose, he had darn well better report her to the cops, before someone finds that snake and we have another " killer python in the wild " media circus.

Second, if the two of them have so little respect for each other now, I don't see them having a very healthy relationship in the future. But that's just my opinion.

Gale

[snakeman13]

She gave it to the guy she sees while the bf is at work!

[Swingline0.0.1]

Maybe the paranoia is simply increasing, maybe they're just becoming more obvious, but it sure does feel like this site has become some psych students thesis study.

Which is funny...because I am a psych student! You have to know how to listen to both sides before condemning people!

[fishboyUK]

Jokes aside, I would ditch her. Not for the fact of loving the Ball python more than her, but because of the lack of respect.

How would she feel if she came home to an empty wardrobe. "Sorry, I wasn't feeling the clothes, so I gave them to some homeless bag lady"