What I have done in the past for unruly dragons is try to get as much positive interaction with them as possible. Handling them whenever you can in a safe and familiar environment. You want to make sure they are confortable and settled in before starting to calm them done. If they have a specific food item that they love use that as a reward/incentive when handling them. I will hold them for a while until they get antsy then return them to there viv and give them a treat(mine luv hornworms they go nuts for them) the next time do the same thing. You can also try the scenting trick by leaving something with your sent in the tank so they get use to your scent. The key is handling it might take a while but eventuly they will calm down. Most of the time it is do to not feeling safe and are scared, just keep doing what you are doing and she will eventually mello out for you, just might take some time..

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