Ok Im sorry I dont usually get aggressive, but useless post.
WHile you may have years and years of experience with what to do in this situation, the OP and others may not. IMO, if you dont know, then asking your peers is the best solution. Especially if you cant afford and dont know a reputable rept vet.
Normally I would just roll my eyes at something like this, but this event could not have been easy for the OP and it would be nice if people who disagree could at least show a little more compassion when they chime in.