I feel absolutely retarded for coming on here, and asking what you think of this. But I am sitting here and none of my 'friends' are responding to my texts. So. here it goes.
Have you ever dated a guy, who told you he wanted you to be less indepedent? And that the only reason why you have so many animals, aka snakes is that since they are animals they will never leave you because everyone else does? My boyfriend of almost 2 months told me this last night, and I mearly(sp) told him that it was because I've been raised with animals, have a deep passion for them and its something I love and makes me happy.
I don't know how to respond to this, we've been dating less than 2 months and he wants me to move in with him already. But told me I am only allowed to have a certain amount of snakes. I took him to one reptile show, and I know for a fact he won't go back. He kind of makes fun of it. I really like this guy, for once I've found someone who really does care and for once doesn't treat me like garbage. But he doesn't accept the hobbies, and things I love.
I should be the happiest girl alive right now, but instead I feel crappy. And have no idea how to deal with this. So if you have experience, I need some help because I honestly don't know if I can handle another disapointment, if this doesn't work. I give up.
I'm used to having some space, but he wants me with him every waking minute. He doesn't like doing what I do, only wants me out drinking every night with his friends. It's taking a toll on me, I work a lot and i'm exhausted. Mentally and physically. I was raised to be an independant woman, and not to depend on people. It's like hes asking me to change myself.
Originally Posted by shescountry89
I feel absolutely retarded for coming on here, and asking what you think of this. But I am sitting here and none of my 'friends' are responding to my texts. So. here it goes.
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