Moving in after 2 months, WAY too soon. Demanding to move in after 2 months, get real!
There is nothing wrong to be independent. I'm the same. That doesn't mean you cant care for someone.
The "walls" you have built up, I can understand that being a young woman and all the guys around. But I think when the right guy comes along, he wont be asking you to take those down, and you will end up doing it anyways because you feel safe and happy and you'll do it your self, not because he asked you to.
No one has to like what you like, but if he doesn't respect what you like and tries to change the core of who you are, then that is one BIG problem.
With my pass few relationships I've learn to first be happy by my self. Then find someone that makes you happy-er. Do the things you like and love. Being who you are is always more important than what others want you to be. I wish I had realized this sooner.
Anyways I could go on, but that is pretty much the basics for me now
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