First of all don't move in with him. That's WAY too soon. He doesn't want you do be independent...so does that mean he wants you to be dependent upon him so he can control you? Maybe I'm off, but that's what it sounds like. I can't believe that after only 2 months of dating he's already saying that sort of stuff. You should still be in the "puppies and rainbows" stage when everything is nice and sweet and each of you keep your opinions to yourselves. Heck, I think I was in that stage for almost a year! We are on year four, bought a house, and engaged now. Arguments are healthy, but name calling or bashing is not. At no point is it ok to do one of those things in an argument, IMO. It's not that hard to have a civil argument with someone if you love them.
I wouldn't say it unless you asked for my opinion, but since you didI think you should look for someone new. If it's already rocky at two months, I don't see it lasting. At least not if you want to keep your dignity and self pride. Keep your pets, you'll find someone wonderful who treats you right and supports your hobby (or at least accepts it)!
My fiance didn't support my hobby, only accepted it, but he is starting to support it and plans on coming to Tinely with me
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