Quote Originally Posted by wolfy-hound View Post
Dump him now. He's a controller. He doesn't want you to have the animals because they take you attention away from him. He wants you to move in with him so you will be in "his space", and therefor more under his thumb. He's already dictacting to you what you will and will not have and do. He already doesn't make you happy, he doesn't want you to do what you like to do, so why are you even bothering to ask other people?

Why should you be the "happiest girl alive"? Just becuase he said he wants you to move in with him? You don't need him. You are your own person, with your own goals and life, and just wanting to be with someone just because they are willing to say yes is no reason at all.

Dump him. He's treating you like garbage already, he's just doing it with a smile on his face.
Read this whole thread. You all had good adivse but wolfy hit every point. X1000

By far best advise here

And as far as my comment on this. Hes asking you to choose between snakes or him correct?

He should "love" you for who YOU are and WHAT you do. Not what he wants. Next he's gonna tell you to quit your job

Quote Originally Posted by WingedWolfPsion View Post
I imported my husband from Sweden.
Sorry but that made me laugh. When you said "imported" i thouhgt you ment bought one

Had to keep reading Nothing wrong with online (I would not do it personally but do not look down upon it)