Quote Originally Posted by rabernet View Post
Did you probe both sides of the spider? Sometimes, someone inexperienced with probing can actually injure the female and it will go deep like a male. If the other side only probes shallow, then it may still be a female. Probe very gently and as soon as you meet resistance, stop.
i see what your saying now but right there it says "did YOU probe both sides of the spider? Sometimes, someone inexperienced with probing can actually injure the female and it will go deep like a male"...............um that word you means me in that one so u was saying it to me and also say i might have injured him........and i repeat watch who you quote and if not watch all the yous you use or maybe just reply consitering this thread here is about probing in general, people need to learn when to quote