Quote Originally Posted by allergenic View Post
You missed my point. If a monitor doesn't want to be held, and you are holding it, you are force-handling. Whether it's for 5 minutes or 5 seconds, you are still force-handling.
You aren't getting the point he is trying to give you, he isn't missing your point at all.

No reptile wants to be handled. But we took the little steps in handling that docile reptiles do not really mind if they are being handled.