I have an opportunity to get a 3yr (probably male but owner never had it sexed) blond pastel. I did some research to see what one looks like and as far as I can tell from pictures I cant tell a difference between them and a normal pastel. So can someone give me some things to look for to be sure what I am getting. If it is a regular pastel I probably will still get it. But just to know how to tell the difference