I know at 19...I seem ancient at 43...but honestly....been there. When you have problems in your relationship....it affects all aspects of your life....IF YOU LET IT!! My hubby has a great saying....."only you can control your emotions...dont let someone else dictate them". Easier said than done...but true.

I mean this ......This too shall pass!! It will! I think Brandons idea is awesome. You are free to go out and do anything right now....how exciting! You can create who you are going to be for the rest of your life....really...that is pretty cool. If you stay in school....go to school!! Remember that your choices with school will affect the rest of your life. Do what you love...not what will pay you the most money...that will come eventually. But doing what you love will net you more wealth in your life.

The girl...there are a millions out there...really. Apparently this one was not meant to be ....move on and stop glamourizing the relationship. Remember the things that are not good in the relationship. I think sometimes we tend to look back at how awesome it was when there were allot of ways we could of been treated better. Remember when it is forever the person better have a great personality because we are all going to pretty much look the same in our 70's. lol.