First shed.....maybe

[MitsuMike]

Don't worry about it. Just let your snake have some alone time and you should find a nice shed very soon.

Alright almost Day 12 and still no shed. Seems to be the same ghost/ really dull color as yesterday. Also REALLY shiney. Idk what that means but he is. He is never really in his hide anymore either. Normally chilling b/w the tub wall and the hide or roaming.
Is there a sickness or some disease that causes these symptoms or am I just being impatient? Is it time for a soaking and wash cloth method? Eyes rn't dented so I know he's not dehydrated........
PS
He has only eaten twice for me and refused twice before he ate.