Quote Originally Posted by Elise.m View Post
I'm gonna go out on a limb and say your GF was much more than "just" a GF.

If I were in your shoes, I'd have to ask myself "Is this really something that can stop me from being happy, or can I find a way to make the best out of it?" I tend to always look on the bright side, so maybe my post is coming across too happy. Lately I've had to ask myself this question a few times, and it seems to be working out.

Four years actually for us. But barely. And this IS something that has stopped me from being happy. I have no way to make the best out of it because there is no silver lining for me. To some people this may be the best thing in the world.

I myself am not too keen on making the best of anything. To me that is settling, and pretending that something is what you want when its not. When life hands you lemons? I am allergic to lemons, I don't like lemonaid and will stuff the lemons up anyones #$# that tries to tell me such.

What does it mean when me and my friends are all watching House, and Wilson says to House, "Being miserable doesn't make you better than everyone else, it just makes you miserable." and everyone in the room turns and looks at me?