You shouldn't have a problem handling on your own. Even a female doesn't get to the point of not being manageable. They have a strong feeding response so you may want to use a hook getting it out. Once out, they are one of the tamest snakes you'll ever encounter. A Columbian boa (boa constrictor imperitor) would be another choice. I'd go with the Dumeril's though. They are great snakes and not everybody and their brother has one.