Can I do it alone?

[wilomn]

I have handled one before, albeit briefly at a show. I am comfortable with doing so.

My question is, is it safe to handle one by myself all the time? Is having a second handler recommended as it is with the bigger pythons?

Like a toddler, what I'm comfortable doing, and what is actually safe to do, can be two totally different things...

Oh, and also I'm referring to the BCI, like a Columbian, which I now see averages 7-8 ft.

That will depend on size and attitude. Size is important because if you weigh 90 lbs and the snake weighs 20, you're going to lose in a tug-o-war. If you're not tiny, then your attitude will be important. You have to know your snake and be confident in your ability to handle it.

The large snake guidelines are good but with boas it can be difficult to know when you need a second person. They are, as a rule, much more mellow than pythons. In my experience.

The thing is, while you really should have someone there when the snake is 8 ft or larger, you may not ever need them.

I say train your husband better and be done with it.