I like how you put the hide back on top of him. Made me smile.
I unfortunately had no option of fearing my adult male bp because to this day my husband still refuses to even open his viv and I have had Tanveer since May LOL. So if it weren't for me he would never be handled, viv would never be cleaned, and he would never be fed
It's easier I think when you are forced into it LOL.
Wishing much luck to you! You can do it!!!!! The advice given by previous members is awesome!