she was just at the vets on thursday, and he said she was mite free and when we got home we put her on newspaper bedding like he recommended so i don't think its mites. now today just before we gave her antibotic shot, she did have an abscess that we didn't know about that popped, so we cleaned it up. it was around where her wound was, so maybe thats why she was soaking. i put the humidity up, and made a humid hide for her so if she is shedding it will be a good one and be easy on her. so we are keeping a close eye on everything. thanks for the help guys.