I hate when life seems to go to potSome how everything always seems to happen at once too. I am so sorry that you are, I'm sure, stressed out to the max!
Personally, I usually meditate, walk in nature, journal etc.. but what I do has a lot to do with things because I am buddhistI would just remember to breathe and to take things one day at a time. If that is too much then take things 1 hour at a time etc... Know that it will all work out and that all your needs are taken care of. Just keep reminding yourself that over and over again.
BTW, I am VERY intrigued that you and your girlfriend are/were pirates at the RenFest! That is the ultimate in cool!!! I like to tell people I have an abnormal obsession with pirates LOL. I even have a room dedicated to piratesI am so sorry that your attire was stolen!
Sending many prosperous wishes your way!