as with all animals not all retics are such aggresive feeders . I have a WC java female that is now 5 yrs old and does not have the strongest feeding responce. all my retics have been gentle as lambs and have all been handled by children ever since they have arived after initial adjustment to new home. Retics IMO are far more trustworthy than many people say . I will try and post some pics with the kids later. as for the vet visit if you think you need to go then maybe you should . dont wait for some else to tell you to go always use your own judgement. Even if nothing is wrong you will know for sure and wont have to second guess yourself