Really, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A nice pastel to me, might be sub par to someone else. I'd say use the search feature on this website and search for pastel, look up the pictures of them and get a feel for what you personally like.

A good example of blushing is in this thread. Those are "Super Pastels" so you won't find a regular pastel with blushing like that. Some come close though.