Ehhh I wouldn't go with a rosie for a first. I have had some first hand experience with them. They can go on feeding strikes that can completely throw off a new owner. Some are crazy and do not tolerate handling at all(like mine) and in general have a lot of strange little things to throw you off. I would however suggest a B. Smithi. Getting an adult may be a bit more expensive than most people would spend on a spider, but if you get a juvenile you're going to have a long wait for it to get big.