first of all thank you so much for all your replies!

ok so hes staying on carpet.
his mouth is scabbing up again :cry:
i have an vet appointment on thursday at 0930 , its the soonest i could get.
his tank is empty of everything but a dish for his worms and greens (maybe if they sit there he'll eat them) and his rock. its completely smooth and reflects the heat back to him. plus he wont get off it.
i pulled the probe thermometer out of my tokay tank, cleaned it and put it on the dragons basking spot. it was at 86. i feel so bad he must have been so cold. i turned on ALL his lights, it was at 92 and rising about 15 minutes ago.
im going to bathe him tonight when my husband gets home with the kids (they like to watch him in the bath)
his uvb bulb is the exoterra repti glo 10.0. i did notice when i shut it off he opened his eyes a little more. i cant go get one till tuesday when i get paid. now is it better to just let him go with out or should i just leave it on?

also i havent really been pulling the scabs off more like after he takes a good long soak i will rub a wash cloth across his mouth and they will peel off they never bleed or anything. they just kind of rub off the way stuck shed will on a snake after a bath

I have tried hand feeding him. i try everyday but he just lays flat on his rock and ignores it. i have dangled eveything from worms to greens to fruits and veggies even a pinkie (i know they arent that healthy im just trying to get him to eat something) ive been spraying vitamin spray and calcium spray on everything i put in his tank but he doesnt eat it any way. i held a worm in front of him for 20 minutes yesterday and he just laid there.

is there any way i could 'force feed' him something like baby food just to get something in him hes starting to look starved and his skin is sagging. i recall reading something that you could open their mouth and put some baby food carrots with some calcium powder and they would eat it. i wouldnt even know the first thing about how to do that though.

thanks everyone for your quick replies.
also thanks dr del for giving me the herp vet links i found one not too far away.