My husband was TERRIFIED of all snakes, until I got my first (It took me 7 years to convince him to let me get one), now he loves them!
He is very involved with the logistics of the snakes. Caging (I could NOT have assembled the mammoth caging system we have without him), supplies, and FINANCIAL he's on board with. He makes twice as much as I do, so he basically supports my habit for me 100%
He will hold the snakes if I get them out, and has 2 that are "his" that he picked out.

As far as feeding, research, cleaning and general maintenance of the snakes (And the feeders) I'm on my own, which is OK because I LOVE this work. He will fill a water bottle or scrub a bowl if I have my hands full and ASK, but everything else, I do on my own.

I bounce EVERYTHING off of him and he has morphs that he likes and wants. He knows the name, sex and morph of every snake we have.