First did you see any mating actually take place? If not and you do want to breed then yes keep putting them together. No matter what if you want to breed this season just keep putting them together. I would not think anything of her being wrapped around ehr bowl only because I have a female who stays wrapped around her bowl all the time no matter what. I have found that sometimes it is just temps being slightly high but not all the time. Some just like to be a little colder ya know. Good luck.