Ok I could not think of what else to call this thread so here goes...

I have an 8 year old son, we are thinking of having a second.

My son is from my first marriage. Now that me and my new wife have been together and ironed out alot of our "us" issues we have rethought wanting a child.

We want to adopt a child from a teen mother, Dylan (my son) was born one month after I turned 16.

We will have paid off all our old debt and be want to be in our own home (not renting) before we adopt.

I have always been against younger people having children because the way a child effects your relationship and you need to be young when you have the chance. I am 24 and my wife is 25 we are still young but we already have one kid and we don't want to be having one when our first one is graduating (36+ years of having a kid in the house doesn't really do it for me)

So I know some people have adopted on here and if you guys could home in please do.

I have not told any one in my family because I don't need opinions from people with baby fever. I want genuine questions and concerns.

So basically yea let me know what you think.

Love you all
mike