anyway, he eats wonderfully.
he'll eat from my hand, off my hand, i can be holding him and just dangle a mouse infront of him and he'll take it and consume it while he's wrapped around my arm for example, no problem. and for 3.5 months old i think thats pretty tame.
Why would you feed your snake while it is wrapped around your arm? That has nothing to do with being tame, he is probably just starving. Sounds like you may not be feeding him enough.
After a snake eats, you shouldn't handle it for 24-48 hours.