Yea I know what you mean
It's all good just don't be expecting people to be negative and it will usually not come across that way. It can be hard to understand what people mean, just think positive and it will change the way your reading posts.
I explain it 100 times over how I love it when my little het alb girl sheds because her colors change almost every time and my wife looks at me with this look of
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