Quote Originally Posted by Morphie View Post
This was also not as formal of a transaction as you are probably used to, since you tend to buy from the bigger guys. This is small-hobbyist to small-hobbyist, and the relationships tend to be a bit more casual and personal when these transactions take place.
I'm a small hobbyist - I've done business with other small hobbiests. I've even done breeding loans with other small hobbiest FRIENDS, and our personal relationships are very casual - however, we have 2 and 3 page long contracts that spells out EVERYTHING so that nothing is mis-understood about our agreement and expectations are clearly laid out.

If you did things for her out of the goodness of your heart, then true altruism does not ever measure the level of "goodness" given back to them, nor keep score.

Does it suck? Sure it does. Does it warrant a warning to others not to do business with her? Absolutely not.