I would go with a spider and shoot for bees. If you get the spider you have a chance to produce your own spiders and pastels (maybe get your female pastel for your male). If you get a female pastel all you can produce on your own is pastels, normals and supers. You could never possibly make your own spider if you go with the pastel female. But if money is an issue then pastel females are cheaper. Hope all that made sense -lol